Oikeo Mens Call #7

This week’s Men’s Prayer Call (#7) was raw, honest, and deeply needed. The running theme was, “How to see past the flesh.” In a world that so often tries to reduce us to our physical appearances, our shortcomings, or the color of our skin, this discussion was especially powerful for the Black men who led and participated in this conversation.The resounding message of the night was clear: the enemy will come and turn you into him. When we allow hate, anger, and bitterness to rule our hearts, we begin to reflect the very evil we’re fighting against. The call challenged participants to rise above the attacks of the enemy, withstand trials in the flesh, and grow stronger in spirit. This message resonated deeply as participants reflected on navigating hate—racism being one of the most pervasive and personal examples.

A Battle Beyond the Flesh

The discussion reminded us that the battles we face, though they manifest in the physical world, have spiritual roots.

Ephesians 6:12 (NIV) reminds us:
“For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.”

It’s easy to become consumed by anger when faced with racism, disrespect, or systemic oppression. But the Bible urges us to look beyond what we see with our eyes. The real battle isn’t against the person who wrongs you; it’s against the spiritual forces influencing them. When we allow hatred to fester, the enemy wins by pulling us into the very darkness we’re fighting to escape.

Jesus’ Example: Withstanding Hate

As we reflect on Jesus’ life during this Christmas season—a time when we celebrate the gift of His birth—it’s essential to remember the profound example of His strength of spirit, even in the face of unimaginable hate and cruelty. The baby born in Bethlehem grew into the Savior who faced rejection, betrayal, and unimaginable suffering, yet He refused to let hatred consume Him.

One powerful example of this is seen at the cross, where Jesus, enduring the agony of crucifixion, still chose love over anger. Luke 23:34 (NIV) records His remarkable words: “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.” Even as those around Him mocked Him and divided His clothing, Jesus prayed for their forgiveness.

This moment encapsulates the very reason Jesus came into the world—to bring peace, forgiveness, and redemption to a broken and hostile world. As we celebrate His birth during this season of hope, let us not forget the strength of His spirit and His unwavering commitment to love, even in the darkest moments.

For us, this serves as a powerful challenge. If Jesus, the Son of God, could forgive those who sought to destroy Him, how much more are we called to rise above the hate we experience? The Christmas season reminds us that His love was not conditional or limited—it was, and is, for all people. By following His example, we can reflect the light of His birth and life, becoming instruments of His peace in a world still plagued by division and hate.

Strengthening the Spirit Against Hate

Hate is powerful, but God’s love is stronger. To withstand trials in the flesh, we must actively strengthen our spirits. As the leader of the call noted, this requires:

• Prayer: Ask God to help you see beyond the surface and recognize the spiritual battle at play.
• Community: Surround yourself with people who lift you up and remind you of your identity in Christ.
• Scripture: Ground yourself in the Word to counteract the lies and attacks of the enemy.

Romans 12:21 (NIV) perfectly captures this call to action:
“Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.”

To overcome hate, we must respond with God’s love. This doesn’t mean ignoring injustice or allowing people to mistreat us—it means refusing to let their actions dictate who we are. As children of God, we are called to a higher standard.

The Takeaway

The enemy wants to use hate to break us down and turn us into a reflection of him—bitter, angry, and consumed by darkness. But as followers of Christ, we are called to rise above. This doesn’t mean the battle isn’t hard or painful, but it does mean that victory is already ours through Christ.

Let’s not allow the enemy to win by dragging us into the very hate we oppose. Instead, let’s strengthen our spirits through prayer, Scripture, and godly community, knowing that God fights for us and works through us to be a light in the darkest of places.

How do you navigate hate or anger in your daily life? Have you ever struggled with seeing beyond the flesh? Share your thoughts or testimonies in the comments below. Let’s continue to encourage one another to walk in faith, truth, and love as we fight the good fight together. Join us for the next Men’s Prayer Call to stay connected and strengthened in the Lord!